16 July 2010

Their story.. Our story..


He, is a person, who will go all out to sacrifice, commit, love and care about his girlfriend.. He wants his girlf to msg him all the while.. and meet him.. cus, he thinks that, his girlf had been spending too much time with her own friends, and didnt have much time with him.. He would rather decline all outting with his friends, and go out with her girlf.. 

She, is a person, with a heart.. and she thinks, friends are more important than her boyf.. she rather meet her friends than him.. she doesent likes to msg so much.. cus, she thinks, its tiring.. many a times.. she wanted to break up with him..

Well, it has been at least 8 months down the road.. Its not easy, learning each other's habits, attitutes, etc..
She said, everytime when she wants to break up with him.. she would think of, him, eating all alone.. cus, he had already been not eating or going out with his friends, or rather not much social friends since, he is with her..

She cried.. and cried..


And, another story..

This Him, he would sacrifice his sleep, and wake up early to msg her girlf while she's on the way to sch.. and sleep late, to accompany her as she studies late into the night.. He would also, decline all outting with his friends if there is an option to choose and go out with his girlf..

He will buy things for her, any when and then, when he sees something he thought which may make his girlf happy.. also, compromising his girlf's mood swings and always giving in.. Its a long distance relationship in this account.. furthermore, its also an low-profile relationship.. A relationship need lots of support and advise from friends and relatives(cousins).. 

His only simple wish? Meet as long as it is possible, and msg whenever its possible.. Because, he thinks, communication is the key..

This She, she would rather meet her friends than her boyf.. cus she thinks, its the last year they would be together.. and should spend more time.. She was throwing all her moods all around at first.. but later.. Changed.. after her boyf's advise or a argument.. She turned to be, a much more understanding person, sacrifice to make her boyf happy..

There were many times, she wanted to break up.. because, she thinks, she is tired.. and she finds that she cant commit more than what her boyf can give..



Conclusion..
Both stories, the two guys love their girlf, more than they love themselves.. However, they never really realise, their girlf cant give them as much love, sacrifices as they do.

And the both girls, they cant really commit themselves that much into that relationship.. Although both of them wanted to break up many times.. they still tried to love, and sacrifice for their boy..


The first story is my friend's account.. Seeing her cry.. made me feel, how my girlf(ex) was feeling.. Because, she always cried, when there are arguments between us.. But crying for the relationship, means, she still loves him, and care about the relationship.. However they are still together..

The second, was mine.. Well, I dont know what to say.. I know that, she did really put alot into our realtionship, and she just cant simply control and stand it.. I am lost for words.. but,  I only know something.. She never forgotten J.. She feels alot for him.. more than she could for me.. I was just a substitute.. she was deceving herself.. that she loves me..
There are so much things to prove why.. but I dont want to say it here.. Because,

I Love her too much..

Posted by my memories at 2:26 PM